The world is very mysterious. Every day we see how much we take for granted without knowing how or why this happens. Billions of people have seen annual apple fell to the ground, I've never thought about why apples fall to the ground and did not go up. Newton was first thought that there must be some kind of power, you have to pull apples on the ground. This idea is based on the discovery of gravity, there is a universal attractive force that all material entities in the universe since its origin. Gradually, the scientists also discovered electrical charges and magnetic materials between the electric and magnetic forces. Even scientists have never found a satisfactory answer as to why different types of materials attract or repel?
What is true of the world's particle is right for live animals of the world. All species in the world get attracted towards members of the opposite sex. Yet any serious answer to why it happens. All of us, as human beings are aware of the force of attraction that pulls us towards each other, but we do not know why it happens.
The cause of Attraction
While scientists have not justified why the financial contribution, they discovered some reason between the attraction using the male and female species of the theory of evolution. They believe that the attraction between male and female species in this world is due to the desire to mate to reproduce children. Based on the theories of Darwin & # 39; and the principle of evolution, since no spies survive other than reproduction. The answer is still incomplete, even after people have children, the appeal des forces are not reduced.
Studies have shown that certain physical characteristics can stimulate the brain & # 39; s hypothalamus, which increased heart rate, sweating, and feelings of sexual arousal. What leads to this answer? Perhaps the most obvious is the youthful appearance that is related to the reproductive capacity. [Buss, David M. The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating. New York: HarperCollins, 1994] Women are attracted to men just what they have to offer in terms of reproduction.
Even the boring scientific research is still missing the mystery of the universe. What causes the heart rate, sweating, and feelings to rise? These measures appear to be nothing less than a miracle, but we can make it happen. Einstein captured these thoughts with the words
"only two ways to live your life." One is as though nothing is a miracle. "The other is as though everything is a miracle."
The trail of physical attractiveness can be found in our knowledge of physics. For example, we all know that opposite charges attract each other. We know that all the material in its natural state neutrality. However, they will be charged when electrons are removed from the material that they are positively charged, while the question of which excess electrons are negatively charged. Here is the appeal to attract charges that they neutralize the charges, and return to the original conditions. The same explanation for the existence of the magnetic particles.
He also explains the attractions because of the gravity of the same principles of science still believes that all matter and energy, which before the big bang. He sees all maters to attract to each other, to reach the original neutral state of matter and energy.
Using the same principle, it can be said that because of the attraction between the opposite sex is due to the desire to become one, as it was a sometime past. We call it love, as we know, the existence (gravity) we do not know why it exists. Because every human being is not only a body but also the mind, the soul and the spirit (of God), four kinds of love there is a species of the human race.
1. Physical Bonds: The Basic Instinct
The differences between the most primitive and basic love between man and woman for the body. The physical plans complement each other, connecting against each other. People satisfaction and joy in the company of a person of the opposite sex. Even small hand enjoyable and transmits energy and love. The reason seems to be the chemical than the body presents an increased flow of body fluids and chemicals, when the physical bond between the male and female being.
The physical bond boy and girl expresses a Tina Turner song: "We & # 39; s Love Got To Do With It "that captured your imagination billion people around the world in the eighties.
It should be understood
that touch your hand
makes my pulse react
That `s just the excitement of
the boy meeting girl
opposites attract
It`s physical
only logical
must try to ignore
this means that more than
[Chorus]
Oh, whats love to do, is to do
What`s love but a second hand emotion
What`s love to do, is to do
Who needs a heart
When the heart is broken
….. ……….. …………
physical bonding of the oldest and most basic form of love that fits the man and the woman. Prostitutions regarded as the oldest profession in the world that humanity has discovered that touch men and women from this attraction.
2. Mental Bonds: Friendship
While the animals found only in the physical bonding opposite sex because they are not able to raise much more than the physical level, males increased mental abilities found another form of the cell element that binds men and females. This bond exists between members of the same sex. Located between
Friendship of the people that are complementary ideas. In the words of Mencius
"Friendship is one mind in two bodies."
The mind is all people want to know what can not be that the whole itself. This knowledge can live in someone else's mind. The friendship stems from the desire of two people to share their thoughts on their minds to grow and be complete.
The mind of the male and female complementary than their bodies. Thus, each person finds different ways of looking at the world, when you see the world through the eyes of a woman. So a man who is good friends with women are the epitome of "goodness" as the mind is fully grown. On the contrary, people who are not friends of the member opposite sense, really evil undoubtedly are a very unbalanced view. All dictators and tyrants never been friendly to women and the list includes Hitler, Stalin and Mao, it was a physical bond with women. Their minds were never really developed. The mind is a personal satisfaction, of tranquility and peace only if they are members of the opposite sex friends.
3. Emotional attachment: the feeling of love
The most beautiful and powerful relationship that leaves the men's and women's emotional. Because emotion is automatically spring to people's desire for souls to become one. The souls of a man and woman complement each other from the same source. This is not just a philosophical truth, but the truth is physical. They always always strive to meet each other to cancel each other out, as the opposition electrical charge or a magnetic opposite pole.
The emotional bond between a man and a woman is often so strong that people have sacrificed their lives or kill themselves in the attempt to become one. Love is often called fetal attraction is responsible for many crimes in this world.
Love is like a chemical reaction that converts the soul of male and female. Who love changed by the basic transformation of soul, loses its identity as hydrogen and oxygen, when assembled to the drop of water.
Love peace and happiness in life the only people you can not buy all the wealth in the world.
4. Spiritual Bonding: God is all
Men and women also share the highest spiritual bonds with each other. The spiritual connection is based on the non-physical contact between people. In this type of relationship, people do not expect from each other because they all seem to combine identity, God or the Holy Spirit is the origin of all entities in the universe.
The mental or physical coupling of the opposite sex people in many forms. It manifests itself in the form of love the motherland, love of children, love to be brothers, and later in life, love your spouse. The final stage of love between spiritual love all people, when the bond is formed at the highest level. The core of this love is always present in man, and this is the first characteristic of the child's love for his mother. Gradually reduced to every other form of love, and only love remains the soul of most people has evolved in this world, like Jesus, Buddha or Gandhi. This kind of love is truly selfless and unconditional.
The Evolution of Human Bonding
Each bond between human beings can be classified into four types of water. Body, mind, soul and spirit. The journey of life begins with the spiritual bond of love that a child is alone. However, as the body, the mind and the soul of the woman passenger in this world, love and connection will be manipulated in different forms. While in the case of animals, the bond serious cross the physical level, humans develop physical mental and emotional eventually buy a full circle and come back to that level, spiritual level. Spiritual love makes a man of God, and God will integrate him to reach his goal of salvation and life. The cycle of life continues toillet one realizes spiritual love between God and man.
Source by sbobet888 Dr Awdhesh Singh